Tuesday, 6 May 2014
Sunday, 4 May 2014
Bullying
No one likes bullies. No one likes to be bullied.
But did you know that bullies only bully people who are weaker and smaller than themselves? So, now you know that a bully is just a weak person who tries to look good.
The Wikipedia defines bullying as the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate or aggressively impose domination over others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. The Wikipedia uses these big words. It's better to understand what the words mean.
Force: Mostly what they give you is the Science meaning of it. It is not the meaning here, this is the bullying term. It means to threaten someone.
Threat: The person intends to give you pain or injury, or something really bad to you. Stay away from them.
Coercion:
Abuse: Treating someone with violence. Over and over. Repeatedly.
Intimidate:
Aggression: This person is ready to attack you with violence. Be careful.
Impose: You force someone to feel like how they are now. They might not like how they are feeling right now. Be considerate of others!
Dominate: Like how the bad guys in books or movies do.
So, don't be a bully! Be a good person. And also, bullies are weak people.
But did you know that bullies only bully people who are weaker and smaller than themselves? So, now you know that a bully is just a weak person who tries to look good.
The Wikipedia defines bullying as the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate or aggressively impose domination over others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. The Wikipedia uses these big words. It's better to understand what the words mean.
Force: Mostly what they give you is the Science meaning of it. It is not the meaning here, this is the bullying term. It means to threaten someone.
Threat: The person intends to give you pain or injury, or something really bad to you. Stay away from them.
Coercion:
Abuse: Treating someone with violence. Over and over. Repeatedly.
Intimidate:
Aggression: This person is ready to attack you with violence. Be careful.
Impose: You force someone to feel like how they are now. They might not like how they are feeling right now. Be considerate of others!
Dominate: Like how the bad guys in books or movies do.
So, don't be a bully! Be a good person. And also, bullies are weak people.
How to attract a true friend ?
It is easy, just be a true friend yourself. Gandhi said "Be the change you wish to see in the world." You don't have to make yourself into what you think others would find attractive. Simply make yourself a big target. Join social clubs organised around activities you enjoy.
POEM
Empty laughter
Broken feelings
Inner torture
Sorrowed breathing
Withhold emotion
Force the smile
Your Inner strength
Worn and tired
The tale of a soul
That’s withered away
With no more control
Everything’s gone astray
Who’s tried so hard, but has not gained
With A long hard road to only a bitter end
A deep, conflicted, suffering pain
And this harrowing tragedy, was once a friend
Have a happy Sunday !! ;)
Broken feelings
Inner torture
Sorrowed breathing
Withhold emotion
Force the smile
Your Inner strength
Worn and tired
The tale of a soul
That’s withered away
With no more control
Everything’s gone astray
Who’s tried so hard, but has not gained
With A long hard road to only a bitter end
A deep, conflicted, suffering pain
And this harrowing tragedy, was once a friend
Have a happy Sunday !! ;)
Good Friendship Quotes
“Friendship is born at that moment when one man says to another: "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself . . ."”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
― Albert Camus
“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet.
Even longer,' Pooh answered.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller
“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.”
― Aristotle
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
― Albert Camus
“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet.
Even longer,' Pooh answered.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller
“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.”
― Aristotle
Proverbs 18:24
Proverbs 18:24
A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.This means that a man with friends can come to conflicts such as betrayal. Some of these friends will use you to advantage and some will insult you. Some friends you will stand by for you but they will not. Some will push you down and won't help you up.
Some will help you but use it for you advantage. Some you will fight for but they push you down and spit on you. But in life after all these conflicts, some of you friends will come, they will come and help you and fight for you. Some will push down all your obstacles and some will help you without doubt. Some will help you when you're family aren't there and some will be you family.
So friends are a wheel, there are the times where you get friends who aren't great and all but might help you and give advice. Some will throw you away and use you when needed. But some will stand by and hold their ground, will take on any pain and obstacles and help you, these are you're trues friends.
Working together with conflicts
Conflicts are a real burden and are really annoying and can really affect you're future and can affect it present. But the real question is when u see 2 people having a fight and get a good project when they work together. The solution is to get to work and don't mind you're conflict. Trust me, because since you don't want to see their face, get to work finish it and get out of their, you'll mind will be settled and better you'll realize how good of friends you are.
If however you're friend starts to argue when you are working together, try to ignore him and tell him, "we will talk later," this usually works. Although if he wants to talk now talk fast or just say sorry and admit its you're fault. But in the worse case scenario he uses violence, then don't punch back just ignore and use words.
In conclusion working together is hard when you are having conflicts but remember whose the better person. If you think he is some kind of animal and he punches you, try to hold it cause if you do punch him you are the same as him. Remember if you are a better person, more people will like you and you might end up with 10 friends instead of 1 beast. So the best way is to remember to be the better person instead of just being the animal.
If however you're friend starts to argue when you are working together, try to ignore him and tell him, "we will talk later," this usually works. Although if he wants to talk now talk fast or just say sorry and admit its you're fault. But in the worse case scenario he uses violence, then don't punch back just ignore and use words.
In conclusion working together is hard when you are having conflicts but remember whose the better person. If you think he is some kind of animal and he punches you, try to hold it cause if you do punch him you are the same as him. Remember if you are a better person, more people will like you and you might end up with 10 friends instead of 1 beast. So the best way is to remember to be the better person instead of just being the animal.
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