Tuesday, 6 May 2014
Sunday, 4 May 2014
Bullying
No one likes bullies. No one likes to be bullied.
But did you know that bullies only bully people who are weaker and smaller than themselves? So, now you know that a bully is just a weak person who tries to look good.
The Wikipedia defines bullying as the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate or aggressively impose domination over others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. The Wikipedia uses these big words. It's better to understand what the words mean.
Force: Mostly what they give you is the Science meaning of it. It is not the meaning here, this is the bullying term. It means to threaten someone.
Threat: The person intends to give you pain or injury, or something really bad to you. Stay away from them.
Coercion:
Abuse: Treating someone with violence. Over and over. Repeatedly.
Intimidate:
Aggression: This person is ready to attack you with violence. Be careful.
Impose: You force someone to feel like how they are now. They might not like how they are feeling right now. Be considerate of others!
Dominate: Like how the bad guys in books or movies do.
So, don't be a bully! Be a good person. And also, bullies are weak people.
But did you know that bullies only bully people who are weaker and smaller than themselves? So, now you know that a bully is just a weak person who tries to look good.
The Wikipedia defines bullying as the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate or aggressively impose domination over others. The behavior is often repeated and habitual. The Wikipedia uses these big words. It's better to understand what the words mean.
Force: Mostly what they give you is the Science meaning of it. It is not the meaning here, this is the bullying term. It means to threaten someone.
Threat: The person intends to give you pain or injury, or something really bad to you. Stay away from them.
Coercion:
Abuse: Treating someone with violence. Over and over. Repeatedly.
Intimidate:
Aggression: This person is ready to attack you with violence. Be careful.
Impose: You force someone to feel like how they are now. They might not like how they are feeling right now. Be considerate of others!
Dominate: Like how the bad guys in books or movies do.
So, don't be a bully! Be a good person. And also, bullies are weak people.
How to attract a true friend ?
It is easy, just be a true friend yourself. Gandhi said "Be the change you wish to see in the world." You don't have to make yourself into what you think others would find attractive. Simply make yourself a big target. Join social clubs organised around activities you enjoy.
POEM
Empty laughter
Broken feelings
Inner torture
Sorrowed breathing
Withhold emotion
Force the smile
Your Inner strength
Worn and tired
The tale of a soul
That’s withered away
With no more control
Everything’s gone astray
Who’s tried so hard, but has not gained
With A long hard road to only a bitter end
A deep, conflicted, suffering pain
And this harrowing tragedy, was once a friend
Have a happy Sunday !! ;)
Broken feelings
Inner torture
Sorrowed breathing
Withhold emotion
Force the smile
Your Inner strength
Worn and tired
The tale of a soul
That’s withered away
With no more control
Everything’s gone astray
Who’s tried so hard, but has not gained
With A long hard road to only a bitter end
A deep, conflicted, suffering pain
And this harrowing tragedy, was once a friend
Have a happy Sunday !! ;)
Good Friendship Quotes
“Friendship is born at that moment when one man says to another: "What! You too? I thought that no one but myself . . ."”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
― Albert Camus
“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet.
Even longer,' Pooh answered.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller
“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.”
― Aristotle
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
“Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend.”
― Albert Camus
“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“We'll be Friends Forever, won't we, Pooh?' asked Piglet.
Even longer,' Pooh answered.”
― A.A. Milne, Winnie-the-Pooh
“You are my best friend as well as my lover, and I do not know which side of you I enjoy the most. I treasure each side, just as I have treasured our life together.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
“I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light.”
― Helen Keller
“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.”
― Aristotle
Proverbs 18:24
Proverbs 18:24
A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.This means that a man with friends can come to conflicts such as betrayal. Some of these friends will use you to advantage and some will insult you. Some friends you will stand by for you but they will not. Some will push you down and won't help you up.
Some will help you but use it for you advantage. Some you will fight for but they push you down and spit on you. But in life after all these conflicts, some of you friends will come, they will come and help you and fight for you. Some will push down all your obstacles and some will help you without doubt. Some will help you when you're family aren't there and some will be you family.
So friends are a wheel, there are the times where you get friends who aren't great and all but might help you and give advice. Some will throw you away and use you when needed. But some will stand by and hold their ground, will take on any pain and obstacles and help you, these are you're trues friends.
Working together with conflicts
Conflicts are a real burden and are really annoying and can really affect you're future and can affect it present. But the real question is when u see 2 people having a fight and get a good project when they work together. The solution is to get to work and don't mind you're conflict. Trust me, because since you don't want to see their face, get to work finish it and get out of their, you'll mind will be settled and better you'll realize how good of friends you are.
If however you're friend starts to argue when you are working together, try to ignore him and tell him, "we will talk later," this usually works. Although if he wants to talk now talk fast or just say sorry and admit its you're fault. But in the worse case scenario he uses violence, then don't punch back just ignore and use words.
In conclusion working together is hard when you are having conflicts but remember whose the better person. If you think he is some kind of animal and he punches you, try to hold it cause if you do punch him you are the same as him. Remember if you are a better person, more people will like you and you might end up with 10 friends instead of 1 beast. So the best way is to remember to be the better person instead of just being the animal.
If however you're friend starts to argue when you are working together, try to ignore him and tell him, "we will talk later," this usually works. Although if he wants to talk now talk fast or just say sorry and admit its you're fault. But in the worse case scenario he uses violence, then don't punch back just ignore and use words.
In conclusion working together is hard when you are having conflicts but remember whose the better person. If you think he is some kind of animal and he punches you, try to hold it cause if you do punch him you are the same as him. Remember if you are a better person, more people will like you and you might end up with 10 friends instead of 1 beast. So the best way is to remember to be the better person instead of just being the animal.
How to tell if your friend isn't a good friend
There are lots of ways to tell if your friend is not a good friend, some are being manipulated. Some people such as kings and rich people tend to manipulate weaker people such as beggars. When they do take advantage of you, they are not good friends, they aren't even your friends. Stay away from it, find new friends although some people tend to do that unconsciously. When they do that without knowing try to ask them to stop it, if they refuse then stop being their friend.
Another way to tell if your friend isn't a good friend is that if they start to get angry at you, and start blaming you. sometimes this happens if they tend to be in one group with you and start blaming you. They would usually be in one group with you and when it does get bad they blame you and when a miracle happen, they praise themselves. If you have friends like this try to be in other groups, although when it is your fault, fix it and try to say sorry.
Another way to tell if your friend isn't a good friend is that if they start to get angry at you, and start blaming you. sometimes this happens if they tend to be in one group with you and start blaming you. They would usually be in one group with you and when it does get bad they blame you and when a miracle happen, they praise themselves. If you have friends like this try to be in other groups, although when it is your fault, fix it and try to say sorry.
How to avoid Conflict
Conflicts can't be avoided, they will always come in your life. But there are ways to stop finding conflict, conflicts do happen naturally. Even if you don't plan about it and you purposely do it just because there isn't any choice. For example, if you are the government and you need money to support the community, you know this is the right choice but what you're doing is wrong. But if you don't help its also wrong, then you face a problem, in a way you end up corrupting taking money and the community doesn't understand so they punish you. Conflicts are a way to learn experience if taken as advantage but the risk for that are high.
Some people such as terrorist do find conflicts and they do get them. But people such as Governments do get a choice, same as the terrorist. To make it simple, conflicts happen to all men and women, remember no matter if they are Terrorist or Soldiers, Governments or Beggars, Leaders or Followers they are all humans and the same rules apply to all humans. All humans follow simple rules such as gravity and pain and they all have a choice. Terrorists are also humans and the choices they make, made them into terrorists.
Choices are the way conflicts can end and it could end in 2 very different ways and those ways are ending it or leading it into a huge global conflict. One of the biggest conflicts which got the road to get ended are racism. But the conflicts that have been global and could end terribly is global warming. So the way we can all avoid conflict is to stay away from it, don't look for it, hide from it but when it does find you, solve it, take advantage of it and then stay away from it.
Some people such as terrorist do find conflicts and they do get them. But people such as Governments do get a choice, same as the terrorist. To make it simple, conflicts happen to all men and women, remember no matter if they are Terrorist or Soldiers, Governments or Beggars, Leaders or Followers they are all humans and the same rules apply to all humans. All humans follow simple rules such as gravity and pain and they all have a choice. Terrorists are also humans and the choices they make, made them into terrorists.
Choices are the way conflicts can end and it could end in 2 very different ways and those ways are ending it or leading it into a huge global conflict. One of the biggest conflicts which got the road to get ended are racism. But the conflicts that have been global and could end terribly is global warming. So the way we can all avoid conflict is to stay away from it, don't look for it, hide from it but when it does find you, solve it, take advantage of it and then stay away from it.
Saturday, 3 May 2014
What's the poster about
One of the features of our poster is that it tells you why u need to social. You can't just sit in you office chair just eating and watching videos and playing games and going outside hoping someone will say "Hi friend." Our poster is about how important friends are and how they can not only be fun to be with but can comfort you. Friends are able to help you with problems and give you advice that can't be found online.
Our poster talks about how friends can comfort you can help you but it can't be done if you are anti-social. "Bandages can heal your physical wounds. But can they heal your hurt emotions? NO, but good friends can comfort you, and God can heal your hurt emotions. " means that there is no way bandages can heal you mentally. Maybe later in the future with some technology stuff thingy but the best way is through friends and god.
Our poster talks about how friends can comfort you can help you but it can't be done if you are anti-social. "Bandages can heal your physical wounds. But can they heal your hurt emotions? NO, but good friends can comfort you, and God can heal your hurt emotions. " means that there is no way bandages can heal you mentally. Maybe later in the future with some technology stuff thingy but the best way is through friends and god.
Friday, 2 May 2014
Conflicts
We can have many conflicts with other people. There are different ways on how we solve it.
Okay, so to make this work, let's take the example above there. The boy and girl are bored so they want to pick something to do. But they both have different ideas on where to go, and they both start an argument.
There are different ways to solve this conflict, there are Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Lose-Lose and Win-Win. Okay, let's make up a story...
Boy: Hey, Let's go to the Football game I like!
Girl: No! That's boring! I want to watch a movie the cinema instead!
Boy: We always go there!
Girl: But I want to go there again!
Boy: You know what, you listen to me. We're going to the Football game no matter what!
Girl: But...
Boy: NO BUTS! Come on let's go!
This is called Win-Lose. I always win, and you must lose. So you must be right and the other person must be wrong. But... can you live that way all the time? Won't people start to hate you? There should be a better way...
Boy: You want to play some sport?
Girl: Nah, I want to go to the mall.
Boy: Why? Sports are fun!
Girl: NO! I WANT TO GO TO THE MALL!
Boy: Okay, fine! We're going to the mall, though I won't like it.
Girl: HOORAY we're going to the mall!
This is called Lose-Win. You will lose, and others will win. You play as a little surrender cat. This is okay, but can you live like this ALL the time? Isn't it a burden to you?
Boy: Hey, what do you want to do?
Girl: I don't know.
Boy: Do you want to go to the cinema or something?
Girl: No.
Boy: Well, then, do you want to go out and eat?
Girl: No.
Boy: Well, what do you want to do?
Girl: I don't know.
Boy: Come on, you have to choose something...
This is called Lose-Lose. Both sides lose, and it is like both people are pointing a gun at each other's head. The result is that everyone doesn't win! This is the worst solution, so stay away from that.
Boy: Hey, you want to eat out at this fancy restaurant? It has a discount!
Girl: But... I want to go in a fast food restaurant instead...
Boy: Hmm... well, the discount ends tomorrow.
Girl: Oh, then... Must I eat at the fancy restaurant?
Boy: No! No need to! Well then... we can eat at your restaurant. The fancy restaurant probably would be much more expensive than fast food, even with the discount on.
Girl: Hey, you know, we can eat a bit fancy. Who knows that the fast food will have a discount some other time?
Boy: Okay, so we will agree on eating my restaurant? We can eat at your restaurant some other time.
Girl: Yeah! Let's go!
This is called Win-Win. The best solution for both sides. So, you will get what you want and the others will also get what they want. It's nice to see everyone happy, isn't it?
Next time if you see a conflict coming, choose the Win-Win solution! It has the most courage and consideration!
Okay, so to make this work, let's take the example above there. The boy and girl are bored so they want to pick something to do. But they both have different ideas on where to go, and they both start an argument.
There are different ways to solve this conflict, there are Win-Lose, Lose-Win, Lose-Lose and Win-Win. Okay, let's make up a story...
Boy: Hey, Let's go to the Football game I like!
Girl: No! That's boring! I want to watch a movie the cinema instead!
Boy: We always go there!
Girl: But I want to go there again!
Boy: You know what, you listen to me. We're going to the Football game no matter what!
Girl: But...
Boy: NO BUTS! Come on let's go!
This is called Win-Lose. I always win, and you must lose. So you must be right and the other person must be wrong. But... can you live that way all the time? Won't people start to hate you? There should be a better way...
Boy: You want to play some sport?
Girl: Nah, I want to go to the mall.
Boy: Why? Sports are fun!
Girl: NO! I WANT TO GO TO THE MALL!
Boy: Okay, fine! We're going to the mall, though I won't like it.
Girl: HOORAY we're going to the mall!
This is called Lose-Win. You will lose, and others will win. You play as a little surrender cat. This is okay, but can you live like this ALL the time? Isn't it a burden to you?
Boy: Hey, what do you want to do?
Girl: I don't know.
Boy: Do you want to go to the cinema or something?
Girl: No.
Boy: Well, then, do you want to go out and eat?
Girl: No.
Boy: Well, what do you want to do?
Girl: I don't know.
Boy: Come on, you have to choose something...
This is called Lose-Lose. Both sides lose, and it is like both people are pointing a gun at each other's head. The result is that everyone doesn't win! This is the worst solution, so stay away from that.
Boy: Hey, you want to eat out at this fancy restaurant? It has a discount!
Girl: But... I want to go in a fast food restaurant instead...
Boy: Hmm... well, the discount ends tomorrow.
Girl: Oh, then... Must I eat at the fancy restaurant?
Boy: No! No need to! Well then... we can eat at your restaurant. The fancy restaurant probably would be much more expensive than fast food, even with the discount on.
Girl: Hey, you know, we can eat a bit fancy. Who knows that the fast food will have a discount some other time?
Boy: Okay, so we will agree on eating my restaurant? We can eat at your restaurant some other time.
Girl: Yeah! Let's go!
This is called Win-Win. The best solution for both sides. So, you will get what you want and the others will also get what they want. It's nice to see everyone happy, isn't it?
Next time if you see a conflict coming, choose the Win-Win solution! It has the most courage and consideration!
Thursday, 1 May 2014
Friendship
Friends. Everyone needs friends. No human can survive without any company of friends.
If you see someone who doesn't have a friend, be a good friend to them. A friend can help you at problems and make you happy! Together, you can influence each other, and everyone can be a better person.
But you must be careful, there are bad friends. If you have a bad friend, stay away from them and find a good friend! (Do not enemy or hate them, just stay away) If you stay with the bad friend and hang out with them, then you would become bad too, because your friend has become a bad example for you...
Then, to find good friends, you must be a good friend!
If you don't find a friend, then don't be lonely, there is someone who is willing to be your friend all the time and He would never leave you. God can be your best friend, even closer than your brother or sister!
If you see someone who doesn't have a friend, be a good friend to them. A friend can help you at problems and make you happy! Together, you can influence each other, and everyone can be a better person.
But you must be careful, there are bad friends. If you have a bad friend, stay away from them and find a good friend! (Do not enemy or hate them, just stay away) If you stay with the bad friend and hang out with them, then you would become bad too, because your friend has become a bad example for you...
Then, to find good friends, you must be a good friend!
If you don't find a friend, then don't be lonely, there is someone who is willing to be your friend all the time and He would never leave you. God can be your best friend, even closer than your brother or sister!
A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. -Proverbs 18:24 NIV-
And God sacrifice his life to save you and clean away your sin! What other friend can do that?!
I hope you all have a good day! Choose Good Friends! God Bless You!
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